After a while of dating Mr Wrong and Mr Cheater, it’s so easy to quit the dating scene for good.
But there are good guys out there. Lots of them, in fact; you just have to know where to look.
So let’s take a look at 10 ways to find yourself a faithful guy.
Online Dating: There is no denying that for every bad online dating story is a fantastic one. More and more people are meeting their soul mate online. And if they can find the good guys, so can you.
Volunteering: Volunteering is a great way to meet new people; it is a way of meeting good people with big hearts who are ready to devote their time and energy to helping others. People who volunteer tend to be open, kind, compassionate, warm, considerable, and emotionally available people who are faithful to their friends, family – and partners.
Your Friends: Your friends should be people that you trust. Take a look around you and ask yourself if there is someone you’ve known for a long time that would make for a great partner.
Spend Some Time By Yourself: Spending some time by yourself might sound counter-productive when it comes to meeting a man. After all, shouldn’t you be aiming to spend your time with other people?
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Say Yes To Something Different: If you’ve been going to the same places and doing the same old things for the last year or so but find that you’re not meeting faithful and desirable men, you might want to have a rethink about these places you’re visiting. Perhaps it’s now time to try something different. Instead of heading to the pubs and clubs each weekend, consider saying yes to that cultured friend who’s been inviting you to the galleries and museums for the last ten years.
Dig Up The Past: People say we should never dig up the past and instead let sleeping dogs lie. But maybe there is a man from your past who you had a crush on, and who was as faithful as they get, but he was the one who got away? There is nothing wrong in reconnecting with someone from your past who you think might be the One.
Go To Church: Going to church is a good idea if you’re trying to find a faithful man. Men who go to church are naturally moral and ethical, as well as kind, compassionate and considerate.
Throw A House Party: It’s your house party and you can invite who you want. As well as inviting all your cool friends who share your values, you should also ask your friends to invite their other friends who also share your values.
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